Preparing for Camp
Separating from home/family and adjusting to the camp experience is part of going to camp. There are many ways to help children prepare for camp.
- Read books about going to camp.
- Talk with other parents and friends whose children have gone to camp.
- Become familiar with camp schedules & procedures.
- Role play with your son about how to respond to camp situations.
- Inform the family about writing letters to your son while he’s at camp. Have them write often, and consider sending a letter prior to his arrival so that there will be mail waiting for him at camp.
- Be positive about your son’s upcoming experiences at camp - avoid statements like “I know you will have a great time at camp, but I will miss you so much”.
Homesickness may occur during the first few days of camp. This is a normal occurrence and is not limited to campers. Even staff have occasional feelings of homesickness. Explain to your son that this is normal and a common feeling. Our staff is alert to boys that are homesick and will work with them. Almost always the homesickness disappears after a few days. You may receive a sad and/or negative letter from your son, especially if he is homesick the first few days of camp. Usually, the subsequent letters are more positive and up-beat. If you are worried or concerned, don't hesitate to contact us. We will check on your son and give you a full report.
When you write to your son, it is helpful to center your attention on what the child is doing at camp rather than detailed accounts of what is happening at home. In all cases, be sure to set a positive and encouraging tone.
You as a parent need to be ready for your child to go to camp. You will also feel pangs of “homesickness” for your son. Don’t make “bargains” with your child by telling him if he doesn’t like camp or is homesick, you will come get him. This sets up the child for failure and a lack of serious effort to give camp a chance.
Part of the camp experience is for a child to learn self-sufficiency and self confidence. A camp experience provides a child the opportunity to learn the give and take of cabin living with a group and developing interpersonal relationships. Know that your child is in good hands and we monitor his adjustment and well-being. Help us make this a positive growth experience by supporting and encouraging him to try new things and take advantage of all Falling Creek has to offer.
